Brian Austin Green’s relationship with Megan Fox was one that captured the public’s attention from the start. Their whirlwind romance began in 2004 on the set of *Hope & Faith* when Fox was just 18 and Green was 30. They eventually married in 2010 and had three children together. However, behind the scenes, things were not always as perfect as they seemed.
1. The Complex and Emotional Split with Megan Fox
During the *Old-ish* podcast, Green opened up about the early stages of his relationship with Fox. He recalled the enormous responsibility he felt, especially with his son Kassius, who he shares with his ex Vanessa Marcil. “When we were first together, I already had Kass,” Green explained. “She became very responsible for his well-being and was involved in all of the legal stuff that was going on with Vanessa and I, and it’s a lot at a young age.”
But, as time passed, Green revealed that the pressures of being with a man who already had children took a toll on Fox. “I think it became overwhelming for her. When she realized that, she wanted out quickly, which is then what made it hard for me,” Green said, explaining the tension that grew between them. “I understood it, but it doesn’t make it any less hard.”
2. The First Separation: A Heart-Wrenching Time for Green
The couple’s first significant breakup came in 2015, when Fox expressed her desire for a divorce. At the time, they had two children, Noah and Bodhi. “It killed me,” Green confessed. “I was sick. She went to New York to do the sequel to *Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles*. I couldn’t even go with her because I couldn’t walk, I couldn’t do anything.”
Green’s vulnerability during this period was palpable. “It was the most vulnerable thing I had ever experienced in my life at that time,” he recalled. Although he didn’t have the physical ability to argue or fight for their relationship, Green acknowledged that Fox’s interest in someone else on set may have contributed to her decision. However, their separation was short-lived. “I think that once she was back in L.A., that just quickly sort of fizzled out,” Green added.
3. A Second Shot at Love, but Another Breakup
Despite their earlier challenges, Green and Fox reconciled and welcomed their third child, Journey. “Then we were just kind of back in the wheel… and it seemed like we were in a good place,” he said, reflecting on their renewed commitment to one another. However, not long after, Fox once again came to him wanting a divorce. “I was devastated,” Green admitted, revealing the emotional toll of the second breakup.
The couple ultimately parted ways for good in 2020, with Fox moving on with Machine Gun Kelly. Their split was made even more public when Fox referred to Kelly as her “twin flame” and “ultimate soulmate” in the media. Green’s reaction to these comments? A mix of emotions, including jealousy and acceptance. “I was genuinely in a place of… ‘I can deal with this. This is not gonna kill me,'” Green said, acknowledging the difficult nature of watching his ex move on.
4. Playing Along with Fox’s Media Requests
Another interesting aspect of their divorce saga came when Fox reached out to Green during the height of their public separation. “She called me and asked me to tell the listeners of my podcast that she and MGK were just friends,” Green recalled. Despite the turbulent circumstances, Green admitted that he “completely caved” because he still had deep affection for Fox.
“I didn’t want to badmouth her even though it was a s—– situation,” Green said. His decision to go along with Fox’s request was rooted in his genuine love and care for her, even amidst the breakdown of their relationship.
5. Unpacking the “Grooming” Rumors
Throughout their relationship, Green faced criticism and rumors, particularly about the age difference between him and Fox when they started dating. Green addressed these long-standing rumors, including the notion that he had “groomed” Fox. “I think it comes from my dad,” Green explained. “He’s very good at cutting emotion out of something and just being logical in his choices.”
Instead of directly confronting the rumors, Green opted for a more pragmatic approach. “If I defend myself this one time, it’s never gonna stop,” he said. “I’m gonna have to defend myself for who knows how long because people are gonna believe what they wanna believe.”
6. Brian Austin Green’s Toxic Past with Vanessa Marcil
In addition to discussing his high-profile relationship with Fox, Green also took a moment to reflect on his turbulent past with ex Vanessa Marcil. The relationship, which ended in a lengthy custody battle, was described by Green as “toxic.” He confessed that it was not a healthy or loving relationship and that it left him questioning his own identity.
“After two years, you’re kind of looking at yourself in the mirror, asking, ‘Who am I at this point?’” Green said, describing how the emotional toll of the relationship affected his well-being. “There’s not one piece of me that’s left. My relationship with everyone around me has changed.”
Ultimately, Green described his time with Marcil as a significant misstep in his life, one that he learned from. However, it was during this dark period that he found solace in his relationship with Megan Fox. “Megan was a breath of fresh air coming out of what felt like Vietnam,” Green revealed, describing how Fox provided a much-needed reprieve after a challenging chapter.
7. Finding Peace with Sharna Burgess
Now engaged to professional dancer Sharna Burgess, Green seems to have found peace and happiness once again. During the podcast, Burgess shared her perspective on Green’s journey, and how it feels to support him through this process of healing and growth.
While Green’s past relationships have been tumultuous, his journey of self-discovery and healing is far from over. His candid conversations about his experiences, mistakes, and growth provide a raw and honest look into the complexities of love, loss, and personal growth.